So I’ve lived in places where I really got to “let it go”, just letting the grass go until the soil started to build up and then things really take off. One place I lived in was particularly amazing in being fairly moist and had some excellent tree cover. Within a year we were getting native pollinators at our doorstep that hadn’t been there before and an microecosystem emerging around them.
But where I live right now is both unfortunate and overly drawn out. We’ve been in a house we dislike in an area we hate for nearly 4 years now and our only hope for exit is buying land, though that will most likely happen by winter.
This is a suburban kind of neighborhood, but not too suburban. My landlord swings by more often than I’d like and for the first year was the one to threaten me about not mowing often enough. Not being a fan of control nor of the shallow roots of Kentucky Bluegrass, we took the subtle route towards having a yard that had some ecological merit.
And these are the results four years in:
This shot is from my neighbor’s yard across her backyard, ours, and then the neighbor on the other side. Had I taken this shot before the last 4 weeks when we were in drought-like conditions would be brown, green and brown. Kentucky Bluegrass is particularly prone to wear from heat, drought and lack of rain. Our neighbors lawns were dying and ours was still a fairly lush green. That’s how little KB is left out back and increasingly less in front and on the sides.
This might not look amazing, but keep in mind the whole yard was mowed about a week and a half ago.
Also worth noting that when we moved in, about 10’ around that Magnolia was all totally just dirt with little to no life within it.
Closer shot of the cover. What you’re seeing is mostly clover and violet with some broad leaf plantain mixed in. Some dock and mulberry as well.
Guess where the property line is.
So what did we not do?
The biggest things are the obvious ones: we don’t spray, we don’t seed.
Here are the things with some intentionality and an ear towards what seems permissible:
- Mowing as little as possible. We use the Magnolia as a cover for not
mowing a larger area around the tree and that serves as a starting
point for new growth that has been spreading outwards. - Leaving leaf debris on the ground until the absolute last minute. Basically
ensuring as much ground cover as possible until everything starts
growing again in the spring. We then dump the debris across the
street where things have really, really gotten wild. - Transplanting the trees that start growing up in our yard (maples, tulips, and oaks) to the “park” across the street. I do this probably upwards of a dozen times per year.
- Mow over garlic mustard before it goes to seed.
What we’ve ended up seeing is a succession. That area around the property line shot was basically just English Ivy when we moved in, going towards the back of the house where basically nothing grew. The plantain has taken over on its own just by having been given the chance.
Naturally, it’s not a native, but it has offered a better precondition for the violets, clover, and poke to come through. As you can see in the back, the plantain isn’t gone, but there is far more growth surrounding it and the natives shine through the most. We get a good bit of mulberry too these days, but our pokeweed is fantastic. We effectively get a tree growing outside by the time the berries ripen.
Our front yard reflects this, but at a slower growth. The front of the house is the only area we’ve actively planted. Bee Balm, Butterfly Weed, Golden Rod, and a few others that haven’t taken quite as strongly, but the soil in that area is excellent. Enticing enough that some Carolina Wrens were nesting in a tulip poplar basket hanging off our front porch and seemed to enjoy the cover.
We get a way with a more wild looking area by just putting up a shitty cheap wooden mini-fence around it. But we regularly get hummingbirds and a ton of insects out there. Even had some mallards a few years ago and a lot of rabbits. The lawn surrounding that area is increasingly violets and clover. If we gave the poke more of a chance, it would eclipse everything. As a result, the poison ivy around the porch has dwindled to a few plants from being completely intertwined before. Thistle is far less common and there has been no garlic mustard over the last two years. Lots of speedwell and lady’s thumb as well.
So just thought I’d share this. Thoughtful inaction based on “how far can we push this” and still getting an increase in wildness around a house where the township sprays 3-4 times per year, but we’re still going strong.
Far, far, far from ideal, but if we were able to let it go completely, it’d be a forest within decades.


